Ultimately the issue is largely subjective - each person has to decide for themselves what gives them the greatest pleasure and therefore what course they want to pursue in life.
Cassius Thanks for this assessment, but doesn’t Epicurus encourage us to follow our net pleasures to the fullest? If we have been endowed by Nature with capabilities, it would seem UNnatural to not develop those abilities to the fullest extent of net positive pleasure? Instead of “hiding our talents under a bushel” or “living a quiet life in the middle of the nowhere “, I read how Epicurus encourages us to meet and study together with others.
I can see that someone who tends to be more passive or introverted may have more difficulty in reaching out or participating in group activities.